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Consider this : be loud and fierce and wild

I want you to use your voice. I want you to yell and scream and run and jump and use every bit of energy you have to race around the block, banging on drums and cymbals, car hoods and trunks, neighbors’ doors, the bells on bikes, tree stumps, and trashcans. …

Consider this : tell them what you really do.

  Dear Emma, I hate to break this news to you, but you have maybe another four years before you get asked the proverbial “adult” question. It’s the question people will ask when they want to make some kind of sense about who you are before you even have a …

Consider this : be a failed artist

Go broke, get lost, run out of gas, lose your job, watch your beautiful plan go down the drain… Jams arched an eyebrow. “Izzat supposed to make you a better person? Like zen or…just busted. Bobby McGee, as in.” No. No, man, I don’t think I am any better a …

thinking thursday.

(photo by Kelley Ann Kelley) Another 16-year-old was killed in Asheville this week because she was answering a text message and crossed the center line, hitting a truck. And a young girl walking along a street was killed when a driver texted this message: "Do we have enough cheese for …

Consider this : you are already who you are going to be

One springtime afternoon, when my son was in 7th grade, the guidance counselors visited his 6th period class.  He was not at all prepared for what they asked him to do. He came home very sullen and with a backpack full of career choices. There were at least four different …

Consider this : take the long look

Now that you’re entering a world in which your time and attention will be divided into a million quick glances a day just to make sure you’re not missing anything, I want to remind you to take the long look as often as you can. This is a little like …

poetry wednesday : I was picked up and chewed and swallowed

Sentimental Education And when we were eight, or nine, our father took us back into the Alabama woods, found a rotten log, and with his hunting knife pried off a slab of bark to show the hundred kinds of bugs and grubs that we would have to eat in a …

Consider this : be honest with your heart

These are the things I wish somebody had told me when I was 18: *  You have immense strength.  Trust it. *  We are all born with instincts. We all learn impulses. Learn to distinguish the difference between them. Trust your instincts. Be more cautious with impulses. *  Pain, trial …

Consider this : the decisions that matter are decisions that make something happen

Emma: By now you have learned that your mother, my dear friend, has asked those of us who know you to write to you as you graduate from high school. You will not remember me but your mother can explain to you why she and I have such a good …

Consider this : go now and live

–Jeanette LeBlanc Photography Blog | Twitter | Facebook I am gathering wisdom from the far corners of the earth to give my older daughter, Emma, as she graduates from high school. What would you say to her? Or to your own 17-year-old self? What thoughts would you ask her to …