You have the power of standing still

Stillness No speed of wind or water rushing by
But you have a speed far greater. You can climb
Back up a stream of radiance to the sky,
And back through history up the stream of time.
And you were given this swiftness, not for haste
Nor chiefly that you may go where you will.
But in the rush of everything to waste,
That you may have the power of standing still—
Off any still or moving thing you say.
Two such as you with a master speed
Cannot be parted nor be swept away
From one another once you are agreed
That life is only life forevermore
Together wing to wing and oar to oar.

-Robert Frost, "The Master Speed"

A woman named Carroll Ann emailed recently to ask if I could meet her downtown and sign the many copies of Life is a Verb she had bought as holiday gifts for her family and friends. I am always happy to do that, always.

We sat for a wonderful cup of coffee at Malaprop's bookstore downtown and talked. She had created amazing, gorgeous journals to accompany the book, and shared them with me. Beautiful, whimsical journals with tiny cut outs and quotes pasted in and small sticks and ribbon adorning the spiral binding.

As we readied to leave, she said she had some free hugs for me, in the form of two poems printed on lovely vellum paper. One (are you sitting down because this will shock you) a favorite by Billy Collins and one a poem by Robert Frost that I had never read, the one you just read. "It was read at a family wedding," she explained and as I read it, the power of it as a wedding poem was clear to me, but I thought it was much more, too. As we hustle and bustle around, particularly at this time of year, it occurs to me that there is power in standing still. We have the power of standing still.

There was, I hasten to add, a (dare I say gorgeous) photo of Mr. Depp printed at the bottom of the page.

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

6 comments to " You have the power of standing still "
  • Amen and amen.

    I had a snow day yesterday. A day where I was homebound by weather and there are a lot of things I could have done. What I chose to do instead, perhaps unwisely, perhaps not, was to curl up on the couch with my cat snuggled up against me. Together we slept the bulk of the day away.

    It was restorative on so many levels and today, I’m ready to get up and move forward into my life again.

    Big Hug to you!
    Carolynn

  • Pati

    Hi Patti,

    Thank you for the Robert Frost poem and picture and reminders. This may seem like an unusual question: what is the source of the picture? Would it be possible to use it? I don’t want to violate copyright. My purpose is to include it with a reference to one of my favorite books, “First you have to row a little boat,” by Richard Bode.

    Thanks, again.

    Pati

  • Potter

    You the Somebody

    What does it feel like to know you’re SOMEBODY,
    oh if only they could see it, if only they knew
    what you had growing in you-the hum in
    your heart, the shout in your soul-all
    those hopes stowed away in you-if only
    they knew.
    What does it feel like to be looked at like
    you’re trouble, just because trouble’s where
    you live. Yeah it’s your home but it’s not you.
    All that dirt? All that wilt? It’s got nothing to
    do with you.
    No, see that green busting up through the
    street, that’s you-oh if only they knew.
    That tulip blooming in the night? Yeah, that’s
    you all right.
    If only they could see the poet in you, the
    drummer, the preacher, the teacher in you.
    And what does it feel like when there you
    are, thinking your if-only thoughts, dreaming
    your one-day life, and in walks an artist with
    a bucket of paint, with a full set of drums,
    with a sack full of clay, and she says to you
    HEY, I see what you are.
    Then-imagine-a whole roomful of people,
    a whole city of people, suddenly looking at
    you-not you the poor kid, not you the
    down-and-out-low-on-your-luck kid, not you
    the kid living over there on the other side of
    hope, but you the SOMEBODY.
    Well, it must feel something like the sun.

    words by Kathleen Lane

  • For me, Patti, the power of standing still is one which is revelatory. It’s one I have experienced at full volume for some weeks now, and I have yet to tire of it.

    It is an experience which changes from day to day, even from hour to hour, yet it never lessens in value.

    See you in Denver, 2009!

  • I love the poem too — have never heard it. I was surprised it was from Frost – no idea why, just surprised.

    Lovely. Still.

  • sally

    Thank you for the poem, Patti. I will print it out and give it to my Mr. Brilliant for our 13th wedding anniversary, next week.

    Happy holidays,

    Sally

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