50th birthday year giveaway extravaganza #1!


The story of the scarf from Patti Digh on Vimeo.

I may have mentioned once or eleven thousand times that I'm turning 50 this year. As part of my celebration, I'm giving away 50 things over the year, things I love, that have some special meaning to me or a story behind them. Here's the first one, a very special giveaway of a felted wool scarf made possible by the artist, Chad Alice Hagen.

The video tells the story of the scarf. Mr Brilliant was the filmmaker and if you watch carefully in the beginning, he starts waxing poetic, as only he can, about the history of the river we are visiting and all of its tributaries, until I give him the universal signal for "enough, already, you are putting me to sleep." It is a finely honed signal, developed over these many years of living with a man whose brilliance extends to many topics ad infinitum. I say that with the utmost of love. We have taught him over the years that if he feels compelled to answer a simple yes or no question with a recounting of the entire history of Papua New Guinea, he must at least do it in the voice of the Crocodile Hunter, which he does CRIKEY! to great effect.

To be in the running to win this beautiful felted wool scarf by Chad Alice Hagen, you must simply leave a comment on this post between January 26 and midnight on January 30, 2009, with a copy of or link to one of your favorite poems and a sentence or two about why you chose that poem, why you like it, whatever you'd like to say about it.

On Saturday, January 31, just before Spongebob starts his magic under the sea, I'll ask Tessie to pick one of the comments out of a hat and we will have ourselves a winner!

My thanks to artist Chad Alice Hagen for her generosity!

This giveaway also marks the fourth anniversary of 37days, begun in January 2005.

About Patti Digh

Patti Digh is an author, speaker, and educator who builds learning communities and gets to the heart of difficult topics. Her work over the last three decades has focused on diversity, inclusion, social justice, and living and working mindfully. She has developed diversity strategies and educational programming for major nonprofit and corporate organizations and has been a featured speaker at many national and international conferences.

42 comments to " 50th birthday year giveaway extravaganza #1! "
  • Amanda Hayes

    http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/my-triumph/
    I am getting ready to finish graduate school which has been a long hard road of going back to school at 30. I like this poem, although it is a little long, because it reminds me of what is to come. This time and place in my life is not the only thing.
    Amanda

  • I loved seeing your little video and getting to glimpse the magic between you and your family. Quite lovely.

    Okay, I don’t know if original poetry is in the running but I wrote a small poem ‘o so many years ago that I recite to myself quite often when I am feeling separate or alone and it takes me back to the woods I was walking in when I “wrote” it. When I arrive in that space, I feel complete and whole, I feel the connection I have with all things. Here it goes:

    “Beneath the moist earth
    in the soft fertile ground,
    The roots intertwine
    and join the Trees as one.”

    Thank you for allowing me to share this with you (and if you were looking for a poem by a published poet my feelings won’t be hurt to not be included in the drawing, I really just wanted to share).
    Peace~
    Dawn

  • Chris Meissner

    The Way it is–by William Stafford

    There’s a thread you follow. It goes among
    things that change. But it doesn’t change.
    People wonder about what your are pursuing.
    You have to explain about the thread.
    But it is hard for others to see.
    While you hold it you can’t get lost.
    Tragedies happen; people get hurt
    or die; and you suffer and get old.
    Nothing you do can stop time’s unfolding.
    You don’t ever let go of the thread.

    I like the imagery of following a thread. Your purpose. People sometimes don’t get it–why you’re doing what you’re doing. Through discouraging times, the thread is there. Hang on to it like a tow rope.

  • What fun! I posted my favourite poem on my blog a little while ago. It’s one you may have read before, however, it resonates with me and I love it.

    http://aglowingember.blogspot.com/2008/08/my-favourite-things-poem.html

    P.S. I enjoyed the short history of the river, as well. ;o)

    Carolynn

  • we who are
    your closest friends
    feel the time
    has come to tell you
    that every thursday
    we have been meeting,
    as a group,
    to devise ways
    to keep you
    in perpetual uncertainty
    frustration
    discontent and
    torture
    by neither loving you
    as much as you want
    nor cutting you adrift.

    your analyst is
    in on it,
    plus your boyfriend
    and your ex-husband;
    and we have pledged
    to disappoint you
    as long as you need us.

    in announcing our
    association
    we realize we have
    placed in your hands
    a possible antidote
    against uncertainty
    indeed against ourselves.

    but since our thursday nights
    have brought us
    to a community
    of purpose
    rare in itself
    with you as
    the natural center,
    we feel hopeful you
    will continue to make unreasonable
    demands for affection
    if not as a consequence
    of your disastrous personality
    then for the good of the collective.

    [phillip lopate]

    recently introduced to this poem during (current) first read of ‘bird by bird’, by anne lamott (oh-so-very-delicious). tenor of verse slips damn near seamlessly into ‘bird by bird’ … a good fit with my particularly un-branded east coast (presumed) humour-us sensibility :)

    scarves are completely yummy, can i have yours?

    happy upcoming semi-centennial!

    — joyce

  • This is one of several favorite poems – it’s the one closest to my heart at this point in my life. “The Dance” by Oriah Mountain Dreamer http://tinyurl.com/yk2n99. (Her poem “The Invitation” is a very close second.)

    This poem speaks to me of the things I am teaching myself right now – to slow down, to be still, to turn inward and follow my deepest desires, to be true to myself, to love, to risk, and simply be.

  • So…I really like the scarf, but can I say that it looks like that orange stuff that says ‘stay away, construction zone’? But that would be appropriate to hang around my neck, except for the ‘stay away’ part.

    Favorite poem, eh? Impossible answer to a question that I don’t qrock…but here’s A favorite…

    Abd El-Hadi Fights a Superpower

    In his life
    he neither wrote nor read.
    In his life
    he didn’t cut down a single tree,
    didn’t slit the throat
    of a single calf.
    In his life
    he did not speak
    of the New York Times
    behind its back,
    didn’t raise
    his voice to a soul
    except in his saying:
    “Come in please,
    by God, you can’t refuse.”
    Nevertheless –
    his case is hopeless,
    his situation desperate.
    His God-given rights are a grain of salt
    tossed in the sea.

    Ladies and gentlemen of the jury:
    about his enemies
    my client knows not a thing.
    And I can assure you,
    were he to encounter
    the entire crew
    of the aircraft carrier Enterprise,
    he’d serve them eggs
    and labneh
    fresh from the bag.

    ~ Taha Muhummad Ali

    Here’s to green eggs and labneh to you and yours, all of youse.

  • Marlisa Mills

    One of my favorite poets is/was Jane Kenyon, New Hampshire poet laureate, whose life and death were quite remarkable in their “ordinariness.” This poem was written, I believe, when Kenyon knew she had leukemia and had a very poor prognosis. (She was married to US Poet Laureate Donald Hall, who still resides in and writes from new Hampshire.)

    Otherwise

    I got out of bed
    on two strong legs.
    It might have been
    otherwise. I ate
    cereal, sweet
    milk, ripe, flawless
    peach. It might
    have been otherwise.
    I took the dog uphill
    to the birch wood.
    All morning I did
    the work I love.

    At noon I lay down
    with my mate. It might
    have been otherwise.
    We ate dinner together
    at a table with silver
    candlesticks. It might
    have been otherwise.
    I slept in a bed
    in a room with paintings
    on the walls, and
    planned another day
    just like this day.
    But one day, I know,
    it will be otherwise.

    Jane Kenyon

  • Becky

    A Clear Midnight by Walt Whitman

    THIS is thy hour O Soul, thy free flight into the wordless,
    Away from books, away from art, the day erased, the lesson done,
    Thee fully forth emerging, silent, gazing, pondering the themes thou lovest best.
    Night, sleep, and the stars.

    After a crazy hectic day, it’s so nice to sit down and NOT veg in front of the TV but be alone with my own thoughts. It grounds me. I don’t necessarily meditate, but this poem is a great introduction to my time alone.

  • Fire and Ice – By Robert Frost

    Some say the world will end in fire,
    Some say in ice.
    From what I’ve tasted of desire
    I hold with those who favor fire.
    But if it had to perish twice,
    I think I know enough of hate
    To say that for destruction ice
    Is also great
    And would suffice.

    The summer I turned 16, I red this poem in a program at Meteor Crater in Arizona and I’ve since carried it with me as a reminder that sadness can rhyme.

  • Lisa Wiebe

    I am delighted by your 50th year celebration and inspired by the sharing of what you most love!

    Today, the poem that connects to my heart is William Stafford’s – A Ritual to Read to Each Other – because we are in a time of transition and it is important to remain engaged in actions that build the future we desire and the communities we want to live in.

    If you don’t know the kind of person I am
    and I don’t know the kind of person you are
    a pattern that others made may prevail in the world
    and following the wrong god home we may miss our star.

    For there is many a small betrayal in the mind,
    a shrug that lets the fragile sequence break
    sending with shouts the horrible errors of childhood
    storming out to play through the broken dyke.

    And as elephants parade holding each elephant’s tail,
    but if one wanders the circus won’t find the park,
    I call it cruel and maybe the root of all cruelty
    to know what occurs but not recognize the fact.

    And so I appeal to a voice, to something shadowy,
    a remote important region in all who talk:
    though we could fool each other, we should consider–
    lest the parade of our mutual life get lost in the dark.

    For it is important that awake people be awake,
    or a breaking line may discourage them back to sleep;
    the signals we give–yes or no, or maybe–
    should be clear: the darkness around us is deep.

    Happy 50th year Patti! Lisa Wiebe

  • Thanks to you, Patti, Billy Collins is one of my favorite poets. So, one of my favorite poems of his is a natural selection:

    http://pratie.blogspot.com/2005/10/consolation-billy-collins.html

    As a special bonus, anyone clicking the link to read the poem will also have the chance to meet Melinama. I have no idea who she is, but she was kind enough to include Consolation (the poem I am so fond of) in her blog, so I’m linking to her to return the blessing. She also has all manner of wise sayings in her right-hand column, which makes her blog even that much more attractive as a stopping-off point.

    Patti–have I ever mentioned that I love those glasses?

  • http://www.americanpoems.com/poets/eecummings/11943

    This love poem my e.e. cummings is one of my favorites. I love the lines…

    “nobody, not even the rain, has such small hands”

    Such a beautiful image of love and discovery and how we learn so much about ourselves through our relationships with others.

  • ooohh!! the crafter in me craves that scarf–so cool! so hard to pick a favorite poem–I love too many poems!–but I picked this one to go with the scarf:

    Winding Wool

    by Robert Service

    She’d bring to me a skein of wool
    And beg me to hold out my hands;
    so on my pipe I cease to pull
    And watch her twine the shining strands
    Into a ball so snug and neat,
    Perchance a pair of socks to knit
    To comfort my unworthy feet,
    Or pullover my girth to fit.

    As to the winding I would sway,
    A poem in my head would sing,
    And I would watch in dreamy way
    The bright yarn swiftly slendering.
    The best I liked were coloured strands
    I let my pensive pipe grow cool . . .
    Two active and two passive hands,
    So busy winding shining wool.

    Alas! Two of those hands are cold,
    And in these days of wrath and wrong,
    I am so wearyful and old,
    I wonder if I’ve lived too long.
    So in my loneliness I sit
    And dream of sweet domestic rule . . .
    When gentle women used to knit,
    And men were happy winding wool.

  • I’m not commenting to be int the drawing, just wanted to say HAPPY BLOGIVERSARY! 37 Days has given me so very much, lo these many years…not to mention the extraordinary kindnesses and friendship its owner has bestowed on me and mine. The opening of the video made me laugh, but what really got me excited was hearing Tess speak. More Tess, please! (P.S. Not that her parents aren’t riveting on and off camera, too.) ;)

  • Wage peace with your breath.

    Breathe in firemen and rubble,
    breathe out whole buildings and flocks of red wing blackbirds.

    Breathe in terrorists
    and breathe out sleeping children and freshly mown fields.

    Breathe in confusion and breathe out maple trees.

    Breathe in the fallen and breathe out lifelong friendships intact.

    Wage peace with your listening: hearing sirens, pray loud.

    Remember your tools: flower seeds, clothes pins, clean rivers.

    Make soup.

    Play music, memorize the words for thank you in three languages.

    Learn to knit, and make a hat.

    Think of chaos as dancing raspberries,
    imagine grief
    as the outbreath of beauty
    or the gesture of fish.

    Swim for the other side.

    Wage peace.

    Never has the world seemed so fresh and precious:

    Have a cup of tea and rejoice.

    Act as if armistice has already arrived.
    Celebrate today.

    wage peace – judyth hill – september 12, 2001

    It just speaks to me of how each act can be an opportunity to be prayerful, to be spiritual, to connect to something greater than ourselves.

  • Amanda

    http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/love-after-love/

    This poem by Derek Walcott is my current favorite. It rolls through my brain in quiet moments and helps to calm me in chaotic moments. I think it is especially poignant as it carries a message of self compassion and when I heard David Whyte read it….I got goose bumps.

    In the off chance my name is drawn for the scarf, please move along to another. It would be such a waste of a scarf to give it to a Floridian!
    Many thanks to Patti for 37 days. And the poems others have contributed are marvelous!
    Amanda

  • dancing kitchen

    The Layers

    I have walked through many lives,
    some of them my own,
    and I am not who I was,
    though some principle of being
    abides, from which I struggle not to stray.
    When I look behind,
    as I am compelled to look
    before I can gather strength
    to proceed on my journey,
    I see the milestones dwindling
    toward the horizon
    and the slow fires trailing
    from the abandoned camp-sites,
    over which scavenger angels
    wheel on heavy wings.
    Oh, I have made myself a tribe
    out of my true affections,
    and my tribe is scattered!
    How shall the heart be reconciled
    to its feast of losses?
    In a rising wind
    the manic dust of my friends,
    those who fell along the way,
    bitterly stings my face.
    yet I turn, I turn,
    exulting somewhat,
    with my will intact to go
    wherever I need to go,
    and every stone on the road
    precious to me.
    In my darkest night,
    when the moon was covered
    and I roamed through wreckage,
    a nimbus-clouded voice
    directed me:
    “Live in the layers,
    not on the litter.”
    Though I lack the art
    to decipher it,
    no doubt the next chapter
    in my book of transformations
    is already written,
    I am not done with my changes.
    ~Stanley Kunitz

    My glorious friend Delonda held my hands in hers and recited this poem to me as a gift from her soul to mine. It is precious to me, and I share it with you.

  • Jennifer Dempsey

    I attended a United Way womens’ luncheon this week and the following excerpt from Adrienne Rich’s “Natural Resources” was printed on the back of the luncheon program:

    “My heart is moved by all I cannot save.
    So much has been destroyed.
    I have to cast my lot with those who,
    age after age, perversely, with no extraordinary power-reconstitute the world.”

    I believe that so many of us truly want to make a difference in the world but we are paralyzed by the sheer number of causes and the magnitude of the need. We simply don’t know where to begin. I also believe that each of us has a personal burden, one that bothers us more than all the others; an injustice or illness that emotionally wrecks us when we see the evidence of its effects. Some have a burden for the elderly, some for the children. Some are passionate about the fight against AIDS or the safety of battered women. Whatever the cause, we do not have to wait until we’re smarter or braver or the children have left home or we’ve gone back to school and gotten a degree to give ourselves to the cause. We can begin today. Our hands can reconstitute the world even though we have no extraordinary power.
    I am so grateful to Patti for acting on her burden to teach us how to live life intentionally. Post by post, essay by essay, she is reconstituting the world.

  • “why some people be mad at me sometimes”
    they ask me to remember
    but they want me to remember
    their memories
    and I keep on remembering
    mine

    Lucille Clifton is a goddess.

  • http://www.geocities.com/athens/oracle/4284/sonnet89.html

    This poem came to me from a stranger online in 1996 when I was grieving the loss of my soulmate. I had said something about my grief in a forum (my first time ever writing anything on the internet), and that lovely man sent the most perfect Pablo Neruda poem. I still weep when I read it.

    Happy 50th Year!

  • Betsy

    Patti – my years of reading your blog has greatly enhanced my knowledge of, and appreciation for, poetry. While Shel Silverstein wrote just children’s poetry, he’s still one of my favorites, because he made it accessible for children, meaning I could understand it, too.

    However, you have clued me in about Billy Collins and his accessibility. Now I keep a copy of “The Lanyard” on my computer desktop at work, just so I can visit it now and then. Here he is reading it:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0EjB7rB3sWc

    It’s become a favorite, as I can see my own children in that poem — and find myself thinking, “a lanyard really is more than enough.” But on the other side, thinking, “I have not done nearly enough to show my parents, and others, my appreciation for all they have done, and still do, for me.” And it portrays everything I’m feeling so simply. I get teary-eyed every time I read it – and then I call my mother.

  • Charlotte

    Wild Geese by Mary Oliver is my favourite and most loved poem. I know it almost off by heart, and yet I cannot read it without a swell of emotion in my chest. After so many years, I’m still not sure what it is about these words that touches me so deeply, but I will be forever grateful to Mary Oliver for writing them. Here it is:

    You do not have to be good.
    You do not have to walk on your knees
    for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
    You only have to let the soft animal of your body
    love what it loves.
    Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
    Meanwhile the world goes on.
    Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
    are moving across the landscapes,
    over the prairies and the deep trees,
    the mountains and the rivers.
    Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
    are heading home again.
    Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
    the world offers itself to your imagination,
    calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting–
    over and over announcing your place
    in the family of things.

  • jylene

    “The Journey”
    One day you finally knew
    what you had to do, and began,
    though the voices around you
    kept shouting
    their bad advice—
    though the whole house
    began to tremble
    and you felt the old tug
    at your ankles.
    “Mend my life!”
    each voice cried.
    But you didn’t stop.
    You knew what you had to do,
    though the wind pried
    with it’s stiff fingers
    at the very foundations—
    though their melancholy
    was terrible.
    It was already late
    enough, and a wild night,
    and the road full of fallen
    branches and stones.
    But little by little,
    as you left their voices behind,
    the stars began to burn
    through the sheets of clouds,
    and there was a new voice,
    which you slowly
    recognized as your own
    that kept you company
    as you strode deeper and deeper
    into the world,
    determined to do
    the only thing you could do—
    determined to save
    the only life you could save.
    -Mary Oliver

    i know i’ve posted this one here before and it is still my favorite. i love it because i recognized myself in it, i saw the realization of the need to do things for myself that i had been holding back from. i was afraid to do what i felt i needed to do because i didn’t want to disappoint or let others down. i was trying to live up to what other people saw as what i should be doing. i think i’m rambling here… anyway it’s fitting to put a poem by Mary Oliver with your post about the scarf you got at a Mary Oliver reading!
    p.s. i also absolutely love the poem posted by carolynn above, by Oriah Mountain Dreamer!

  • Judy Poe

    So difficult to choose just one, yet this is the poem that came to mind immediately as I read your post. I find that I need this poem and I read it often to remind me. And I gladly take this pledge.

    For All

    Ah to be alive
    on a mid-September morn
    fording a stream
    barefoot, pants rolled up,
    holding boots, pack on,
    sunshine, ice in the shallows,
    northern rockies.

    Rustle and shimmer of icy creek waters
    stones turn underfoot, small and hard as toes
    cold nose dripping
    singing inside
    creek music, heart music,
    smell of sun on gravel.

    I pledge allegiance

    I pledge allegiance to the soil
    of Turtle Island,
    and to the beings who thereon dwell
    one ecosystem
    in diversity
    under the sun
    With joyful interpenetration for all.

    — Gary Snyder

  • This year, I decided to quit dyeing my hair, and dye yarn instead. I am 52, and can honestly say, these are the days, the best that I’ve ever had.

    My favorite poet follows:

    “A Lady Who Thinks She Is Thirty”

    Unwillingly Miranda wakes,
    Feels the sun with terror,
    One unwilling step she takes,
    Shuddering to the mirror.

    Miranda in Miranda’s sight
    Is old and gray and dirty;
    Twenty-nine she was last night;
    This morning she is thirty.

    Shining like the morning star,
    Like the twilight shining,
    Haunted by a calendar,
    Miranda is a-pining.

    Silly girl, silver girl,
    Draw the mirror toward you;
    Time who makes the years to whirl
    Adorned as he adored you.

    Time is timelessness for you;
    Calendars for the human;
    What’s a year, or thirty, to
    Loveliness made woman?

    Oh, Night will not see thirty again,
    Yet soft her wing, Miranda;
    Pick up your glass and tell me, then–
    How old is Spring, Miranda?

    Ogden Nash

  • Happy 5oth year!!!

    WILDFLOWERS

    There is no family tree,
    it’s more like a field of wild flowers
    where the butterflies carry the pollen
    and new flowers bloom each year.

    From the foothills, mountains & rolling fields of the Kentucky we call home;
    the soil from the coal blackened earth
    sprouted a field of dreams.

    Into this field, through blood, marriage or friendship the wild flowers grew one by one
    and reached out their creeping vines
    in love and friendship to find other flowers.

    The flowers each stand alone, and the newest flowers catch only glimpses of the mighty old sunflowers, but the butterflies still carry the new seeds and the vines creep to embrace other flowers. ~Anne King

    It is a simple poem about our heritage. It is beautifully written and the message touches my heart.The circle of life continues.
    Robin

  • Nancy MacDonald

    As always, I’m wowed by the insights and wisdom of the writer and the readers of 37 Days.

    Good for you, Patti, for asking for that scarf . . . I’ve gotten some great stuff by simply asking, but even better, I’ve had some fun interactions with folks – a great way to connect!

    So here is a link to one of my favorite poems. I believe it speaks for my son, Isaac – one of my greatest teachers.
    http://www.geocities.com/unii/ms.html

    Thanks for all you do!

    Nancy

  • Marji

    Just happened upon your Blog and saw you wearing that succulent scarf. Happy 50th!

    The poem I am choosing speaks to me for many reasons. It is written by a child and conveys the fragile nature of life and the importance of noticing beauty even when faced with devastating circumstances.

    I Never Saw Another Butterfly

    The last, the very last,
    So richly, brightly, dazzlingly yellow.
    Perhaps if the sun’s tears would sing
    against a white stone….
    Such, such a yellow
    Is carried lightly ’way up high.
    It went away I’m sure
    because it wished
    to kiss the world good-bye.
    For seven weeks I’ve lived in here,
    Penned up inside this ghetto.
    But I have found what I love here.
    The dandelions call to me
    And the white chestnut branches in the court.
    Only I never saw another butterfly.
    That butterfly was the last one.
    Butterflies don’t live in here, in the ghetto.

    Pavel Friedman, June 4, 1942
    Born in Prague on January 7, 1921.
    Deported to the Terezin Concentration Camp on April 26, 1942.
    Died in Aushchwitz on September 29, 1944.

  • Hello, I love the poetry of Mary Oliver, as many people do. The following poem has a special resonance for me because I read it at my father’s recent burial.

    Sleeping in the Forest

    I thought the earth remembered me,
    she took me back so tenderly,
    arranging her dark skirts, her pockets
    full of lichens and seeds.
    I slept as never before, a stone on the river bed,
    nothing between me and the white fire of the stars
    but my thoughts, and they floated light as moths
    among the branches of the perfect trees.
    All night I heard the small kingdoms
    breathing around me, the insects,
    and the birds who do their work in the darkness.
    All night I rose and fell, as if in water,
    grappling with a luminous doom. By morning
    I had vanished at least a dozen times
    into something better.

    My favorite lines of the poem are the early lines where she writes of the earth’s “dark skirs [and her] pockets full of lichens and seeds…” because that is such a lovely image. I also love the last sentence because it is full of such hope and such faith in the importance and beauty and transforming effects of being close to the earth.

  • Lesli

    I first saw these four lines written by Schiller as the header to a chapter in Edward Bulwer Lytton´s wonderful story `Zanoni´. For me it was one of those `wow, that´s so true´ moments and which made me feel compassion for all of us.

    “Thus man pursues his weary calling,
    And wrings the hard life from the sky,
    While Happiness unseen is is falling
    Down from God´s bosom silently. ”

  • Vera

    I just love what 37 days has become with time: an interactive community of wonderful diverse people. This time the comments are a great addition to your generosity.
    And thanks to having introduced me to some great Americans, among them Chad Alice Hagen!

    So here’s a poem I love:

    Between what I see and what I say
    Between what I say and what I keep silent
    Between what I keep silent and what I dream
    Between what I dream and what I forget
    Poetry.

    Octavio Paz

    And the reasons for this particular poem?
    Part of them are here: http://www.flickr.com/photos/28092570@N03/

  • The scarf is beautiful! I’ve only just discovered your blog but am interested by what I’ve read so far.

  • My favorite poem (one of many)is Nikki Giovanni’s Love Is. It’s a sweet, short poem that reminds me of my sweetie.

    people forget that love is
    tucking you in and kissing you
    “Good night”
    no matter how young or old you are

    Some people don’t remember that
    love is
    listening and laughing and asking
    questions
    no matter what your age

    Few recognize that love is
    commitment, responsibility
    no fun at all
    unless

    Love is
    You and me

  • KarenM

    Whose woods these are I think I know.
    His house is in the village though;
    He will not see me stopping here
    To watch his woods fill up with snow.

    My little horse must think it queer
    To stop without a farmhouse near
    Between the woods and frozen lake
    The darkest evening of the year.

    He gives his harness bells a shake
    To ask if there is some mistake.
    The only other sound’s the sweep
    Of easy wind and downy flake.

    The woods are lovely, dark and deep.
    But I have promises to keep,
    And miles to go before I sleep,
    And miles to go before I sleep.

    I use this to remind me to stop and smell the roses and appreciate the silence despite having places to be.
    Karen

  • Kate

    WHAT IT MEANS TO TRAVEL THE STRAIGHTEST LINE:

    (by Folin Frangicetto from This Day
    Forward)

    placed, so out of focus
    somehow i find myself inside the frame
    within this concrete empire
    i
    swear
    to
    leave
    stand and absorb all the scapes of the land
    stare harder, with intentions of figuring it all out
    and then held for ransom,
    who would make this trade?
    the blurring rails and power plants
    have me thinking that ive lost the way.

    I love this one for a few reasons. It’s from Revolution on Canvas, a compilation of poetry, short stories and visual art by indie performance artists whose work in these mediums rarely sees the light of day. I also like it because, while this may not be the author’s intent, it reminds me of urban photography, which is a favorite hobby of mine.

  • Barbara D.

    I submit The Power of the Dog by Rudyard Kipling because when, even with Libby Lou keeping me company, I think of dog friends who have traveled on before me, some so long ago, and Casey Dog just eight months gone, I can read it and be reminded that it is ok to be sad.

    http://www.readprint.com/work-970/Rudyard-Kipling

  • Johanna Allen

    Only have many favorites–not one–but here’s one of those I love.

    Johanna

    Picnic in July
    on the grounds below the Veteran’s Home

    by Paige Heim-Thompson

    He watches for butterflies
    as I puncture a hole
    through the skin
    of an orange
    with my thumb.

    Beneath his shirt,
    a birthmark
    imprinted on his belly —
    the tip of an arrowhead
    pointing toward his navel.

    Yesterday he wondered,
    is a flower still a flower
    when it dies?

    In the parking lot beside us
    a man pulls his lunch
    from a brown sack inside his car.

    A man alone is still a man.

    A flower is a flower
    from seed to petal to ground.

    Just look at this orange
    in our hands,

    Just look at the pulp we devour.

    Paige Heim-Thompson lives in Minneapolis with Steve, her husband of 12 years, and their two children, Charlie, age 7, and toddler Juliet. She works part-time at a local hospital and has had poems published in Nerve Cowboy and Fauquier Poetry Journal. In 2002 she was a poetry finalist in the Loft Mentor Series competition.

  • Judith

    50 (and beyond!) is the best! I hope it will be for you as well. As a knitter and felter, I would love to win the scarf. BUT I have already won so much more through your blog and your book, and the poems offered here by our friends.
    I tacked this poem on my inspiration board four years ago. When I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer almost three years ago, I read it through a new prism. I send it out now to my 37 Days friends.

    Mary Oliver, from “The Summer Day”

    I don’t know exactly what a prayer is.
    I do know how to pay attention,
    how to fall down
    Into the grass, how to kneel down in the grass,
    how to be idle and blessed, how to stroll through the fields,
    which is what I have been doing all day.
    Tell me, what else should I have done?
    Doesn’t everything die at last, and too soon?
    Tell me, what is it you plan to do
    with your one wild and precious life?

    Patti, I wish I could express how much you have done to connect me with my one wild and precious life.

  • Lori Murray

    He’s quirky, and that’s why I love his writings! And if you haven’t read his book, The Giving Tree, you simply must.

    Early Bird

    Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird
    And catch the worm for your breakfast plate.
    If you’re a bird, be an early early bird–
    But if you’re a worm, sleep late.

    by Shel Silverstein

  • Valarie

    Slicing Oranges for Jeremiah by Diane Wakoski

    http://books.google.com/books?id=b7d6yeOw2DwC&pg=PA73&lpg=PA73&dq=oranges+for+jerimiah&source=web&ots=3zHzV3Q9S2&sig=_VuLry8CmnPBE3xjfgklMeYrm9g&hl=en&sa=X&oi=book_result&resnum=4&ct=result

    A interesting video–read version of the poem.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVSihb1l67c

    It’s a long one; however, I think it’s the first poem read aloud to me that educated me. It showed me that we could really let it all hang out in a poem. It helped me get a boulder off my flattened chest so that I could write Hunted.
    http://tamedsoul.blogspot.com/2001/11/hunted.html

  • Patti –

    Happy 50th and happy 4th Blogiversary!

    Nothing describes for me the contradictions of being a woman like Tess Gallagher’s poem:

    I Stop Writing the Poem…..Tess Gallagher

    to fold the clothes. No matter who lives
    or who dies, I’m still a woman.
    I’ll always have plenty to do.
    I bring the arms of his shirt
    together. Nothing can stop
    our tenderness. I’ll get back
    to the poem. I’ll get back to being
    a woman. But for now
    there’s a shirt, a giant shirt
    in my hands, and somewhere a small girl
    standing next to her mother
    watching to see how it’s done.

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